Farewell
In what is now almost four years being a co-ed of this site I have been aware that I would at some stage find myself writing about the death of someone from our community. What I could not conceive, until recently, is that the first one I write would be for someone less than three years of age. I don't mind admitting that as I write this I find tears coming to my eyes.
The story of Jack Wakefield, of his wonderful family and of how the world of rugby supporters have come to rally round in support is quite a remarkable one. My first encounter with Jack was at the Madejski stadium some eighteen months ago. He had asked his father Gordon if he could meet those people with 'the funny green hair'. A few of us duly obliged and huddled round him as photographs were taken.
Word of Jack and his fight very soon made it onto the messageboard and to the club. Ever since then we have, with the help of his family, been following his battle against this most cruel of illnesses. He was invited to be the mascot for our Saint Patrick's game in 2005 and duly led the team out on that day accompanied by captain Ryan Strudwick.
News that things had taken a turn for the worse came in February this year by way of a post from Gordon entitled 'Still fighting'. This prompted what I can only say was the most extraordinary outpouring of goodwill from the worldwide rugby family. Jack soon found he was the recipient of cards, letters and presents from every corner of the world as news spread. He was visited in hospital by some players and by his best mate, Digger. Gordon was interviewed about this whole experience by Henry Kelly on BBC Radio Berkshire.
Following an initiative taken by Mulledwinemarie flags were gathered from around the premiership and the whole rugby world. It was turned into a big 'United Nations of Rugby' one, Jack's flag. This has been proudly displayed at home games in recent months and was on display at the ECC Final.
Despite all his pain and discomfort word has reached us that Jack continued to smile. His infectious giggle and overall happy demeanor have been mentioned by many of those who have met him. Having been given only a few hours to live he continued to fight, for more than a month. In that time this site has witnessed a quite remarkable online vigil. Joy that he has woken up to see another day, a party then held in his honour. Great sadness to hear of his setbacks and of his eventual death.
The Wakefield family, father Gordon, mother Nikki, big sisters Bonnie and Vickie and grandfather Peter, plus no doubt others who we don't know online, have shown remarkable courage and dignity in dealing with his illness and their struggle. Our heart goes out to all of them.
Wee Jack may have left this earthly life but his spirit will live on. He has touched the hearts of so many. Heaven has another angel added to its ranks.
Rest in peace Jack.
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