The Art of Posting


By Drifter
August 11 2011

Sometimes I actually wonder why I post on the message boards, but after over 2000 posts I seem to be hooked. I have gone from the serious contribution to the down right stupid. I have been praised and sometimes ridiculed, and all for posting my opinion (IMHO).

I cannot remember actually calling for a player to be sacked, but do remember calling one player “sick note” as I never saw him complete a game. I think some players are outstanding whilst others think that they are poor.

So why do some take it on themselves to actually call others stupid when they express an opinion? Is it because posts often are rushed and the poster has not thought about the phrases and content before pressing the button? Is it like sending an e mail to a colleague at work they you get a call from them to express their disappointment about the way it has come across?

Over the past years I have met many of the posters on the forum. I can honestly say that they are the ones that do not berate you for the posts. I believe that these are the ones that understand you because they have shared a beer or a conversation face to face and have understood where you come from. I shared a car with Gillies for England a few years ago whilst going to Bath, and can truly say I understood him, whilst others on here did not. I exchange pleasantries with Gibbbo at every match although I understand he has moved up in the world next season. But why have these two prolific posters given up?

It’s because the fun and banter has slowly been eroded because of peoples desire to have their opinion as the only one that is accurate. We are all arm chair warrior managers, but suspect non of us could even match any of our previous DOR,s. So come on people lighten up!!

Perhaps the most risky option is to post on another clubs pages. I can remember putting my warrior gif on Newcastle’s site. In those days nobody seemed to even use a smilie on their site. I almost got banned from the site for its overuse. Mind I did post on every topic on the page that bought back dead topics. There has been recent discussion on the Pirates site about the comments of Richard Hill that necessitated club statements. And of course the recent discussion about Neil Best’s article about the championship. Neither of which I could see anything wrong with. But the recipient club supporter saw them both as derogatory to them.

I actually believe that all supporters from the clubs want to hear the views of others but at times we all need to take a chill pill and not read too much into what we THINK posters are saying.

Except me because I am always right. – Just ask Mrs. Drifter

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The Art of Posting
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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 2011:08:24:20:34:43 by Powick Eastander.

A quiet voice of commonsense! It is a timely reminder that it is not easy to convey meaning accurately in the printed word. I recall an incident where a candidate failed in a job application. When he asked to see his reference, he was angry because it created a poor impression. The reference writer was horrified because he thought he'd written a good reference. All too often emails are dashed off in the style of the spoken word. Without the intonation and facial expressions etc that would accompany speech, an email can easily be misinterpreted. Moral: reread objectively before you post!

J6/7
J6/7
11/08/2011 18:52
Very salient post, unfortunately it will fall on some very deaf ears!

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Veston Pants
12/08/2011 00:03
Nicely summed up Drifter.

One of the best things about sport is that it provokes lots of discussion and lots of opinions. Everyone has a right to their own opinion providing it is expressed in a respectful manner.

Let's bring the fun back.

S'bridge Warrior
S'bridge Warrior
12/08/2011 13:21
As you can see this is my first post, but the article above inspiried me to finally join in with the posting rather than just reading what others have to say (I've done this for a couple of seasons now).

I really enjoy seeing what people's opinions are on the various topics and I hope you will enjoy mine, although I won't be offended if you disagree.(Sm100)

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Abberley
12/08/2011 14:27
As well as the 'Art of Posting' I suspect some need to develop the 'Art of Reading Posts'.

This is why it is recommended that Newbies lurk for a while in order to gauge the personalities of posters and then read posts in the appropriate 'Voice'.

Message Boards/Bulletin Boards in their current form have been around since the 1970s, but many of the protocols around 'text' communications were established in the early days of the telegraph and Morse code (where they obviously encountered the same problems of miscommunication).

The first Emoticon was in fact documented in 1857 in the National Telegraphic Review and Operators Guide


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Powick Eastander
12/08/2011 14:35
Welcome S'bridge Warrior I will look forward to your posts all new posters are much appreciated.

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arkivist
arkivist
13/08/2011 07:44
It is far easier to be rude in an e-mail - much ruder than you would ever dare to be face to face or in a letter. That is not too much of a problem her, you just get attacked from all corners and put in your place, but we unfortunately carry over the same style to our postings at work where the consequences are more serious. Thinking before hitting "post" is a good idea, as well as being sober and not tired! It also helps if you add something to a thread rather than just posting "and me". I do notice with amusement that one big offender in that respect has improved over the years as he has grown older!

the vocal minority
TVM
15/08/2011 11:27
An addition to the comment about having opinions and relaying them respectfully.

Those who get a little prickly over the issue - just because someone disagrees with your opinion, it does not mean they are attempting to deprive you of it.

Dare we hope? We dare.
Can we hope? We can.
Should we hope? We must.

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Mas Lerdanch
16/08/2011 09:42
:-) for you TVM!

AL FRESCO
AL FRESCO
20/08/2011 17:57
absolutely spot on Sir 10/10

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drifter
22/08/2011 08:15
well at least 538 people have had a look at this topic.

Tunisia was great by the way before you all ask!! LOL

Crispy_Duck
Crispy_Duck
01/09/2011 15:07
Did anybody REALLY understand Gillies 4 England?

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drifter
01/09/2011 16:15
not really!!(Sm150) but I think he just wanted a good time and a bit of fun. we still swap texts every now and again following a disaster in the world!

Teme Dream
Teme Dream
01/09/2011 17:32
What a rubbish post.

(Sm14)

Crispy - I thought you were G4E reincarnated (or was that the janitor (Sm56) )

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drifter
01/09/2011 18:57
and thats the reason he stopped

Teme Dream
Teme Dream
02/09/2011 11:17
Quote:
drifter
and thats the reason he stopped

If you have misunderstood my post Drifter then plse refer to your excellent article above. Or perhaps I have misunderstood your's?

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drifter
02/09/2011 11:25
didn't spot the smilie.

see its easily done(Sm150)

Teme Dream
Teme Dream
02/09/2011 12:25
Quote:
its easily done

Indeed so !!

I fully agree with your post drifter. I hope this season will see the return of the balanced friendly message board that I joined in 2005.... and perhaps even the return of G4E ?

(Sm150)

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