My Mate


By Jazzman
March 9 2011

I first met him back in the early to middle 1990s when I started going to regular Saints games. (My then boss was a season ticket holder in the old main stand and through various reasons was not able to attend every match. I was the lucky beneficiary of this.) My (soon to be) Mate always sat nearby and our friendship developed from a ‘nodding’ acquaintance to a genuine camaraderie.

My Mate

 

When the Tetley Stand was built, he moved with me and JJ to our seats above ‘B’ Block and we all made friends with those around us. It was obvious he didn’t have the best of health, but watching the Saints win always did him good and I don’t think I saw him happier than on that day in May 2000 at HQ.

Later when we decided JJ and I to move to ‘C’ Block there was no question in his mind that he would move too. He was quite happy to forsake his seat and come and stand with us, exposed to the elements and with our new friends Mark, Sue, Haley, Ben and Simon. His health had yo-yoed a bit in the ‘Solly’ era and during our time in Division One, but success in the Amlin,the LV and in spite of the agony of the playoff last year the smile was back on his face.

I know for a fact that he has attended every game at FG that we have gone to and I am sure he has been there at the handful we have missed. He tells me he goes to most away games too and claims to have sat next to Smurf while the camera clicks away. He also claims he has shared a beer or three with St.Marlowe, dined with Uncle Keith, travelled with ChrisG and even slept with Wilma! (Not sure about the dining claim though.)

Although I have known him for so long, I know absolutely nothing about his family or private life. When I have asked about wife, kids or grandchildren he has just smiled. I am not even sure where he lives although it is close to the Gardens.

2011 has not been kind to him though and I feel that this may be his last year as a regular attendee. His health has had a relapse over the winter and he has said that he feels his condition is terminal. He has a check-up later this week and hopes the result will keep him going at least until the middle of April.

Please think of him and if you have religious affiliations please have a word with your God on his behalf otherwise in a quiet moment perhaps we will all raise a glass to his memory.

Ah, I almost forgot to tell you his name……..




HOPE

(He says he springs back every year, but I fear this time it may be wishful thinking, but again he may prove me wrong...again?)

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Discussion started by ComeOnYouSaints.com , 09/03/2011 11:00
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Saint Tim
09/03/2011 11:10
Made me smile - well done Jazzman!

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desbralass
09/03/2011 08:58
(Sm152)

Bridesmaids no more.

OldPete
09/03/2011 09:16
Hes still there Jazzman but has been overshadowed by his memesis a nasty and unpleasant character called FEAR.

who sometimes lurks around the gardens before a game but always used to slip away once a game started and Hope smiled again.

Unfortunately he has been staying longer lately and seems to be taking up permanent residence.

ChrisG
09/03/2011 09:20
Very good Clive and for a bloke that doesn't write articles for the site, that should be one (eh Eds?)

desbralass
09/03/2011 09:25
Seconded.

Bridesmaids no more.

Bob Stainsby
09/03/2011 10:12
Nice one! He is a persistent beggar I'll give him that someone said of him recently "theres always Hope" BTW clive his first Name is Bob and he can be a comedian.

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StBleach
09/03/2011 11:01
Very good - nice to read something 'fresh' with some immagination - keep them coming.

ChrisG
09/03/2011 11:25
His daughter Faith's a lovely girl too, as for Charity well...

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OldPete
09/03/2011 11:49
just in case there is any misunderstanding arising from my contribution above - it was intended to be wry contrast to Clives excellent and i must say uplifting piece.

Well done sir.

John R
09/03/2011 11:58
He does get about a bit, this pal of yours.

I see him most weekends at Headingley!

Will he be with us this weekend I wonder and what shirt will he be wearing?

Up the Carnegie TYKES !

ChrisG
09/03/2011 12:13
Yep but at Leeds he only purchased a half season ticket. Most weeks he goes home at half time. winking smiley

desbralass
09/03/2011 19:08
Lovely stuff,Clive.

Bridesmaids no more.

Alan B
09/03/2011 19:20
excellent stuff

I always meet doom and gloom in the bar before the match and if they stay there it is ok...........

ChrisG
09/03/2011 20:56
Not forgetting the Happy brothers, Always & Never. They both get down the Gardens too.

Flinstone Saint
09/03/2011 21:09
Brilliant, Clive. Brought a tear to my eye. Especially when hubby threatened divorce because I had been sleeping with Hope.(Sm22)

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Saint Dom in Hanoi
10/03/2011 08:17
I think I might know this guy - but I'm shocked to hear he's been over familiar with our Wilma...!

Hope springs eternal in the Saintly breast - or something like that.

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